Can I ask you a question?

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My most asked question is a tie between “How does that pussy look?” and “Can I ask you a question?”. The first question is pretty straightforward and doesn’t require more than a few words to answer or drum up an intense emotional response. The second one does.  Although the immediate response is a simple yes or no the uncertainty of the following question weighs on you. Will it be perverted? Humorous? Angered? WHAT WILL IT BE?!

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Thankfully, this uncertainty does not last too long and is ended soon with a question that belongs in one of the categories mentioned. Some of the most unique questions that I have been asked while camming and my thoughts on them are below.

1. “Have your brothers’ friends ever tried to have sex with you?”

What I’m thinking: Hell no! I don’t walk around the house in a full face of makeup and a bombasss wig wearing lingerie. I doubt anyone would be willing to jeapordize their friendship for a girl in a wig cap, hanes t-shirt, and sweat pants.

2. “Can I call you the N word?”

What I’m thinking: Due to the that way my black pride is set up I’m going to have to say no, but it definitely is shady to me that you are turned on by degrading someone based on the color of their skin.

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3. “Want  to see my dick?”

What I’m thinking: All dicks literally look the same to me, unless your dick is starshaped or something I don’t want to see it.  Unless you pay me.  I do want to see it for some tokens.

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4.”Can you poo and then eat it on cam for me?”

What I’m thinking:

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5. “Have you and your brother ever had sex?”

What I’m thinking: Incest isn’t really my thing, plus I’d never bang a guy who wears socks with sandals.  That’s were I draw the line.

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6. “What is your fantasy?”

What I’m thinking: Winning the lottery.

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7. “Is it ok to masturbate 5 times a day?”

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8. “If I buy you a flight can you fly here and have sex with me?”

What I’m thinking: This is a camsite, not Craigslist.

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9. “Are you bisexual?”

What I’m thinking: Money doesn’t have a gender, so if you’re willing to blow money on me and you’re a woman I’ll be bisexual that night.

10. “What size dick do you like?”

What I’m thinking: The size attached to a rich guy.

Scams to look out for when camming

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Scams are inevitable in the world of camming.  In the words of the great Smokey notable pairs include “peanut butter and (no) jelly, Kool-Aid and (no) sugar, ham and (no) burger” and camming and scams.

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According to an article on The Stranger the demographic of webcam models is largely comprised of people in the age group of 18-25.  This age group is also responsible for falling victim to 29% of scams. This makes the webcam industry a paradise for all the scammers.

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The reason why scams are able to be successful is due to the ignorance of many cammodels of their existence.  I remember falling victim to the “OMG (insert name)?!” scam due to the flaw on my  behalf of not knowing it existed!  This article seeks to minimize this ignorance by listing out the Top Five Most Used Scams.

1, “OMG! (insert name)?!”

This scam has actually gotten me once, and is tried on me several times a week.  But now that I’m hip to it I’m not able to fall for it as easy.  It involves a person messaging you and expressing that they know you and are shocked to see you camming.  Believable scenario, right?  Then the scammer uses that premise to propose they can fix a problem with your cam and to contact them via text on their  work phone to assist you.  The scammer benefits by getting your contact information and maybe some dirty pictures.

2. “I’ll buy you an item of your wish list for a show”

In this case the scammer dips into their arsenal of photoshopped receipts to show you that they have successfully purchased an item from your wish list.  As payment they request a password show.

3. Racks of tokens sent by greys (Chaturbate)

I, also, fell for this scam at the beginning of my camming career back when I was trusting.  Grey users do not have tokens, so if a grey user “tips” you on Chaturbate chances are it is not real.  Grey users will dip into their arsenal of photoshopped images to produce false images of them tipping for a password show.  If you fall for this scam you can expect to provide a whole lot of sex acts for free.

4. They request an interview via a private password show

In this scam a viewer will propose that they are interested in interviewing you for a modeling position, campaign, etc.  Before they offer you the position you will need to prove yourself worthy via an interview directed by them.  What results is you providing a whole lot of sex acts for free.

5. Blackmail

Blackmail is one of the oldest scams.  A viewer puts on their detective hat and is able to dig up some personal information on you.  Like your real name, email address, etc.  They then proceed to threaten to expose the information unless you send them pictures, videos, or something else.

Have you  ever fell victim to a scam? What advice would you give to a cammodel to prevent being scammed?

Fetish Fridays: Furries

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Through my research on the furry fandom I learned that my assumptions of it were wrong.  I also learned that I was not alone when it came to this particular belief and that furries are pretty adamant about dispelling it. That is the belief that furries are a fetish.  Furries are not a fetish, they are a fandom, and furries do not like to be referred to as a fetish.

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The definition of furry is “an enthusiast for animal characters with human characteristics, in particular a person who dresses up in costume as such a character or uses one as an avatar online.”.  By this definition most of the kids who ever watched Space Jam are furries.  Don’t act like you didn’t think Lola Bunny was fine.

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Furry-ism was actually normalized to us millenials!  Every popular Disney movie from the 90’s attributed human characteristics to some animal character.

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I was surprised to learn that only a small percentage of furryism is about sex and that a lot of it has to do with the associated social aspects.  Furries have conventions, dinners, movie nights etc.  They just convene in their furry alter-egos.  I’ll admit I would be a bit shocked if I walked into a restaurant and saw a group of people dressed as farm animals sitting at a table, but “what you eat doesn’t make me s%$# and who you f*h# don’t make me cum” so if you like it, I love it.

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The economic power in the furry community is strong.  Which translates to “they got money”.  So if you’re like me and was a ho in your past life, which you admit, and you want mo’ money, I suggest dubbing one night a month your “Furry meetup”.

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Promote it on Twitter, Instagram, etc. and tell your followers.  Make a flyer and let Furries know it’s happening.  When the night comes don a mascot head with some lingerie and just do what you would normally do on cam.  Watch as the money comes in .

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Some suggestions of furry costumes for you to purchase or put on your wishlist are below.

Fursuit mascot costume head Halloween, Ebay.com

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Pawstar Yip Tip Dark Fox Furry Ear Headband and Plush Tail Costume Combo; Amazon.com

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Realistic no sew DIY Lingerie

So you know those “cheap” diys for pretty items?  The instructions claim the materials only cost like ten dollars but then the items needed to actually do it cost like 50 and are difficult to find.

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I’m talking to you double sided tape!

The final straw is when the tutorial says that it will only take fifteen minutes but it ends up taking five hours and you end up with this:

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So in this realistic DIY that is not the case.  It actually costs 5 dollars and requires the use of regular household items that the typical person has.

The end result is a beautiful bow-like lingerie piece:

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Do not fret if your first go looks a bit closer to this

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I actually like this more, its giving me

“Yeah ah ha, you know what it is
Everything I do, I do it big
Yeah ah ha, screaming that’s stuff
When I pulled out of the lot, that’s stuff
Step up in my town when you see me you know everything
Black and yellow, black and yellow
Black and yellow, black and yellow”

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Point is you’re (maybe) not a seamstress and may need to finagle your creation or use some tape.  However you choose to do it I’m sure it will turn out great.

Bow Lingerie DIY

Materials

4 hoop earrings

1 pair of scissors

1 bundle of 5 inch wide ribbon (I found mine at my Goodwill)

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1 bundle of gift wrap paper for measuring, unless you have actual measuring tape, that works, too, I guess

Step 1: Using your gift wrap measure your torso; do this by holding the gift wrap vertically starting at your waist and then marking on the white part of the paper were the top of your head stops.

Step 2: Using this measurement multiply it by 3 and that is how much ribbon you will need to cut off for your body piece. Your shoulder strap will be about 1/3rd of the original measurement.

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Step 3: Using two of the hoop earrings fasten both ends of the strap piece onto the body piece, fasten the bonds 1/3rd of the way on the ribbon reserved for the body.

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Step 4: Tie your ribbon into a “naughty knot” around you.  A video detailing how to this is outlined below.

You’re now complete!  Rock your lovely Bow lingerie while camming! I suggest making it a game, saying you unwrap it at goal!

Fetish Friday: What are fetishes?

Before I started camming if someone were to ask me if I was a freak I would proudly answer yes.

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I thought that my propensity for swallowing and anal made me a freak.  I thought I was special and that I had no barriers.

This was before I knew about real freakiness. My response of yes to the question of whether or not I am a freak quickly changed to no as I began to learn about different fetishes.  As more and more of my customers proposed that they were willing to spend large amounts of money to see me fulfill various fantasies that I had never considered it opened my eyes to how much I didn’t know about sex.

I hope to share with you every Friday information on a fetish as well as items you may need in order to visually portray that fetish.  I also invite you to share fetishes that you would like more information on as well as tips  and tricks!  This weekly installment will be called Fetish Fridays!

So welcome to your first Fetish Friday!  In this introductory post a simple definition and brief history of fetishes will be explored.  I promise to keep this brief and to not bore you.

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What is a Fetish

According to dictionary.com a fetish is “a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc”.  The origins of fetishism within someone is often disputed with some attributing it to factors occurring during puberty, factors before puberty, external factors, etc.

Fetishes are also extremely common with 87% of  men and women reporting that they derive sexual gratification from an object.  I admit I fall victim to this.  I see a stack of pancakes and its an instant orgasm.  I cant even go to IHOP anymore.

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Types

According to Askmen.com the 10 most common fetishes are foot fetish, voyeurism, latex, domination and submission, body piercing, breasts and behinds, cross-dressing, hair, water, thunder and lightning, and furries .  There also exists a plethora of fetishes that are less common.  Some examples are  raceplay,  balloons, and pancakes.

Next Fetish Friday: Furries

Are there any fetishes that I haven’t mentioned?  Have any favorite fetishes?  Which fetish would you like to see explored?  Leave questions, comments, and/or concerns down below in the comments section.

What type of Lingerie to wear to make the most money

Many people like to be visually appealing to the opposite sex, especially during “sexy times”.  This desire is amplified when money is involved.  I, personally, am willing to dress up like a chicken and seductively say that I taste good fried if someone is willing to pay me enough, but this article is not about my lack of shame or appealing to a minority, that’s for another article ;).

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This post is about appealing to the masses and what are the preferred types of lingerie according to men.  A study done by the Huffington Post sought to discover the answer to this statistically by conducting a survey on Askmen.com of 2,700 men to discover their preferences.  The results garnered by this survey are depicted visually in the graphic below.

55b145181500007600174150I honestly think the answers to these questions were fueled by ignorance on the samples behalf of what the bras asked about really look like. Ask the next guy you see to describe a balconette bra.

I’m betting that they can’t.  But, regardless or not of the ignorance or bias of the sample the results point to the fact that the majority of men prefer push-up bras and thong panties.  I, personally, prefer a chicken suit but I guess most men don’t…

Using the data results procured by the Huffington Post I have compiled 8 lingerie sets that are perfect for camming.  These lingerie sets range in price from very cheap to high priced.  So they are the perfect gift to ask for on your wishlist.  Have a patron that complains they cannot afford to buy you a pricey toy from your wishlist?  You can direct them to one of the lower priced sets!

Classic lace

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Avidlove Women Sexy Lingerie Lace Babydoll Bodysuit Bralette Bra and Panty Set ; $17.98

 

 Men wear lingerie, too!

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Male Power Shoulder Harness with C-Ring Waist Band Black; $19.99

 

3. The Best gift ever Lingerie

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Naughty knot unwrap me sexy body bow; $19.99

 

BBW Approved lingerie

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Oh La La Cheri Curves Plus Size Open Cup Crotchless Lace Teddy

“I’m a slave for you” Lingerie women

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Dreamgirl X-Rated Open Cup Wet Look Dress; $29.99

 

  “I’m aslaaaaaaaave for you” lingerie men

Male Power Poseidon Fetish Thong and Shorts

Male Power Poseidon Fetish Thong and Shorts; 34.99

 Sexy Roleplay Lingerie

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Lovehoney Fantasy Plus Size French Maid Basque; $49.99

“Ray Charles to the bulls#*%” lingerieray

Naughty little secret; $34.99

Which piece is your favorite?  Do you have any recommendations?  Leave them in the comments below!

XOXO

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What life of a cam girl is about

Welcome-clip-art-4-2-clipartwizHey everyone!  Welcome to this blog!  On Diary of a cam model tips and tricks to increase revenue garnered as well as other camming related content can be found.  This blog will also move to eliminate the negative stigma associated with any sex work.  Sex work is the oldest profession and has long served as a refuge for marginalized groups that were ostracized by the traditional workforce.  Examples of this can be evidenced throughout various religious texts as well in classic literature.  This blog will also contain interviews with popular cam models!  In short, this blog is very interesting and entertaining.  So read a few articles!

Webcam model memes

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The key to success in the world of camming is not what most people think.  Most people think that in order to be a successful webcam model you have to be extremely good looking and have the best equipment.

This actually isn’t the case at all.  The key to success in the world of camming is personality.  People will spend a dollar on a big butt and a smile but will spend hundreds of dollars on a big butt, smile, AND a bubbly personality!  I make the most money when I just sit and talk to the members of my room.

Also do not fear if you’re not bubbly and optimistic most of the time.  I’m definitely not.  I’m that friend who will get a papercut and text you that she’s about to die, that girl that wears “black Timbs and black hoodies” and writes poetry in the dark.

So how do I go from this

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to this

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 Well it starts for me with a laugh.  The ability to switch to a personality that’s appealing to the cam world starts with a cute giggle at a meme.  The memes that I choose to laugh at are usually related to camming,  Unfortunately, there does not yet exist a huge network of camming memes yet.  As a result of this camming memes are difficult to find.  But thanks to my friends on Twitter and various online meme makers I am always able to find  and/or create webcam model memes! Below I have gathered the five best webcam model memes.  I upload new ones frequently on Twitter so follow me there for more memes and to share your camming memes with me.  Thanks!

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2. My reaction to group shows.

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3. The Fetish side of webcamming.

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4.  Getting tipsy for cam.

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5. Scam Alert!

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Which meme is your favorite?  Have you made your own that you would like to share?  Follow me on twitter so that I can see it and I might retweet it!

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