Scams to look out for when camming

Scam Alert
SCAM ALERT red Rubber Stamp over a white background.

Scams are inevitable in the world of camming.  In the words of the great Smokey notable pairs include “peanut butter and (no) jelly, Kool-Aid and (no) sugar, ham and (no) burger” and camming and scams.

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According to an article on The Stranger the demographic of webcam models is largely comprised of people in the age group of 18-25.  This age group is also responsible for falling victim to 29% of scams. This makes the webcam industry a paradise for all the scammers.

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The reason why scams are able to be successful is due to the ignorance of many cammodels of their existence.  I remember falling victim to the “OMG (insert name)?!” scam due to the flaw on my  behalf of not knowing it existed!  This article seeks to minimize this ignorance by listing out the Top Five Most Used Scams.

1, “OMG! (insert name)?!”

This scam has actually gotten me once, and is tried on me several times a week.  But now that I’m hip to it I’m not able to fall for it as easy.  It involves a person messaging you and expressing that they know you and are shocked to see you camming.  Believable scenario, right?  Then the scammer uses that premise to propose they can fix a problem with your cam and to contact them via text on their  work phone to assist you.  The scammer benefits by getting your contact information and maybe some dirty pictures.

2. “I’ll buy you an item of your wish list for a show”

In this case the scammer dips into their arsenal of photoshopped receipts to show you that they have successfully purchased an item from your wish list.  As payment they request a password show.

3. Racks of tokens sent by greys (Chaturbate)

I, also, fell for this scam at the beginning of my camming career back when I was trusting.  Grey users do not have tokens, so if a grey user “tips” you on Chaturbate chances are it is not real.  Grey users will dip into their arsenal of photoshopped images to produce false images of them tipping for a password show.  If you fall for this scam you can expect to provide a whole lot of sex acts for free.

4. They request an interview via a private password show

In this scam a viewer will propose that they are interested in interviewing you for a modeling position, campaign, etc.  Before they offer you the position you will need to prove yourself worthy via an interview directed by them.  What results is you providing a whole lot of sex acts for free.

5. Blackmail

Blackmail is one of the oldest scams.  A viewer puts on their detective hat and is able to dig up some personal information on you.  Like your real name, email address, etc.  They then proceed to threaten to expose the information unless you send them pictures, videos, or something else.

Have you  ever fell victim to a scam? What advice would you give to a cammodel to prevent being scammed?

Fetish Friday: What are fetishes?

Before I started camming if someone were to ask me if I was a freak I would proudly answer yes.

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I thought that my propensity for swallowing and anal made me a freak.  I thought I was special and that I had no barriers.

This was before I knew about real freakiness. My response of yes to the question of whether or not I am a freak quickly changed to no as I began to learn about different fetishes.  As more and more of my customers proposed that they were willing to spend large amounts of money to see me fulfill various fantasies that I had never considered it opened my eyes to how much I didn’t know about sex.

I hope to share with you every Friday information on a fetish as well as items you may need in order to visually portray that fetish.  I also invite you to share fetishes that you would like more information on as well as tips  and tricks!  This weekly installment will be called Fetish Fridays!

So welcome to your first Fetish Friday!  In this introductory post a simple definition and brief history of fetishes will be explored.  I promise to keep this brief and to not bore you.

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What is a Fetish

According to a fetish is “a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc”.  The origins of fetishism within someone is often disputed with some attributing it to factors occurring during puberty, factors before puberty, external factors, etc.

Fetishes are also extremely common with 87% of  men and women reporting that they derive sexual gratification from an object.  I admit I fall victim to this.  I see a stack of pancakes and its an instant orgasm.  I cant even go to IHOP anymore.

pancake orgasm


According to the 10 most common fetishes are foot fetish, voyeurism, latex, domination and submission, body piercing, breasts and behinds, cross-dressing, hair, water, thunder and lightning, and furries .  There also exists a plethora of fetishes that are less common.  Some examples are  raceplay,  balloons, and pancakes.

Next Fetish Friday: Furries

Are there any fetishes that I haven’t mentioned?  Have any favorite fetishes?  Which fetish would you like to see explored?  Leave questions, comments, and/or concerns down below in the comments section.

What type of Lingerie to wear to make the most money

Many people like to be visually appealing to the opposite sex, especially during “sexy times”.  This desire is amplified when money is involved.  I, personally, am willing to dress up like a chicken and seductively say that I taste good fried if someone is willing to pay me enough, but this article is not about my lack of shame or appealing to a minority, that’s for another article ;).

chicken costume

This post is about appealing to the masses and what are the preferred types of lingerie according to men.  A study done by the Huffington Post sought to discover the answer to this statistically by conducting a survey on of 2,700 men to discover their preferences.  The results garnered by this survey are depicted visually in the graphic below.

55b145181500007600174150I honestly think the answers to these questions were fueled by ignorance on the samples behalf of what the bras asked about really look like. Ask the next guy you see to describe a balconette bra.

I’m betting that they can’t.  But, regardless or not of the ignorance or bias of the sample the results point to the fact that the majority of men prefer push-up bras and thong panties.  I, personally, prefer a chicken suit but I guess most men don’t…

Using the data results procured by the Huffington Post I have compiled 8 lingerie sets that are perfect for camming.  These lingerie sets range in price from very cheap to high priced.  So they are the perfect gift to ask for on your wishlist.  Have a patron that complains they cannot afford to buy you a pricey toy from your wishlist?  You can direct them to one of the lower priced sets!

Classic lace

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Avidlove Women Sexy Lingerie Lace Babydoll Bodysuit Bralette Bra and Panty Set ; $17.98


 Men wear lingerie, too!

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Male Power Shoulder Harness with C-Ring Waist Band Black; $19.99


3. The Best gift ever Lingerie


Naughty knot unwrap me sexy body bow; $19.99


BBW Approved lingerie

plussized lingerie

Oh La La Cheri Curves Plus Size Open Cup Crotchless Lace Teddy

“I’m a slave for you” Lingerie women


Dreamgirl X-Rated Open Cup Wet Look Dress; $29.99


  “I’m aslaaaaaaaave for you” lingerie men

Male Power Poseidon Fetish Thong and Shorts

Male Power Poseidon Fetish Thong and Shorts; 34.99

 Sexy Roleplay Lingerie


Lovehoney Fantasy Plus Size French Maid Basque; $49.99

“Ray Charles to the bulls#*%” lingerieray

Naughty little secret; $34.99

Which piece is your favorite?  Do you have any recommendations?  Leave them in the comments below!



What life of a cam girl is about

Welcome-clip-art-4-2-clipartwizHey everyone!  Welcome to this blog!  On Diary of a cam model tips and tricks to increase revenue garnered as well as other camming related content can be found.  This blog will also move to eliminate the negative stigma associated with any sex work.  Sex work is the oldest profession and has long served as a refuge for marginalized groups that were ostracized by the traditional workforce.  Examples of this can be evidenced throughout various religious texts as well in classic literature.  This blog will also contain interviews with popular cam models!  In short, this blog is very interesting and entertaining.  So read a few articles!

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