8 things you need to know about female orgasms

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If winning the lottery and world peace had a love child the child would be the female orgasm.

Equal parts pleasure and biological necessity, a good orgasm is all you need in life.  Well, that and water; and food; and shelter etc.

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Ok maybe its not all that you need, but it sure is nice!  Here are 8 facts about the female orgasm that may help you “reach the climax that your man can’t make” (One More Chance by Notorious B.I.G).


Some women have orgasms while they exercise (i.e., “coregasms”).

Young Woman Doing Pushups on Bench

So, you’re elongating your life, looking thinner, AND having an orgasm?!  What other super activity has that many benefits?


In addition,  physical activity also releases endorphins in your brain.  The same stimuli released in antidepressants and sugar.  So not only will you possibly have an orgasm but you will feel happier either way.


 Most women report that a longer penis does not increase their likelihood of reaching orgasm during vaginal intercourse


Apparently size doesn’t really matter!  You can refer the clients who would like confirmation of this to this science based evidence article on elitedaily.com.


It’s not easy for women to reach orgasm

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You are not alone if you have never experienced an orgasm! According to Rowland, Cempel, and Tempel, as reviewed in their recent study Women’s Attributions Regarding Why They Have Difficulty Reaching Orgasm,” reports of difficulty or inability to orgasm in women range from 10 to 40 percent. External factors such as stress at work or medical issues are often to blame for this problem.


Orgasm gets better with age.

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This fact drums up fond memories of my grandma telling me how she is having the best sex shes ever had now, in her 70’s at the time.  Looking back, that topic of conversation may have been a bit innapropriate…But apparently as her ease at achieving orgasms increased her filter in conversations decreased.


Women can experience orgasm in their sleep

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Two of my favorite things to do are to sleep and have sex!  The combination of the positive factors of both sounds fantastic!  Orgasming while asleep is a subconscious activity that cannot be controlled.  So, unfortunately, you cannot force  an orgasm to happen while sleeping.  Doctors compare this phenomena to sleep walking.

The environment and social factors affect the ability of a woman to achieve orgasm


“Setting the mood” is a needed step in being able to achieve an orgasm.  Other factors that affect our social lives such as a fight with a friend or disagreement with a coworker can also diminish the ability to orgasm.

It’s a form of cardio


Forget the treadmill, you don’t even have to leave the bed to improve heart health.  Orgasms increase your heart rate and are a great way to get your daily cardio in.

It relieves stress

stressed womanA way to relieve stress is to have the brain release endorphins.  Endorphins are like reminders to your brain to be happy.  Studies have shown that many illegal drugs such as heroin cause your brain to release endorphins.  An alternative is orgasming.  Orgasms are also found to release endorphins and to relieve stress.

Fetish Friday: What are fetishes?

Before I started camming if someone were to ask me if I was a freak I would proudly answer yes.

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I thought that my propensity for swallowing and anal made me a freak.  I thought I was special and that I had no barriers.

This was before I knew about real freakiness. My response of yes to the question of whether or not I am a freak quickly changed to no as I began to learn about different fetishes.  As more and more of my customers proposed that they were willing to spend large amounts of money to see me fulfill various fantasies that I had never considered it opened my eyes to how much I didn’t know about sex.

I hope to share with you every Friday information on a fetish as well as items you may need in order to visually portray that fetish.  I also invite you to share fetishes that you would like more information on as well as tips  and tricks!  This weekly installment will be called Fetish Fridays!

So welcome to your first Fetish Friday!  In this introductory post a simple definition and brief history of fetishes will be explored.  I promise to keep this brief and to not bore you.

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What is a Fetish

According to dictionary.com a fetish is “a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc”.  The origins of fetishism within someone is often disputed with some attributing it to factors occurring during puberty, factors before puberty, external factors, etc.

Fetishes are also extremely common with 87% of  men and women reporting that they derive sexual gratification from an object.  I admit I fall victim to this.  I see a stack of pancakes and its an instant orgasm.  I cant even go to IHOP anymore.

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According to Askmen.com the 10 most common fetishes are foot fetish, voyeurism, latex, domination and submission, body piercing, breasts and behinds, cross-dressing, hair, water, thunder and lightning, and furries .  There also exists a plethora of fetishes that are less common.  Some examples are  raceplay,  balloons, and pancakes.

Next Fetish Friday: Furries

Are there any fetishes that I haven’t mentioned?  Have any favorite fetishes?  Which fetish would you like to see explored?  Leave questions, comments, and/or concerns down below in the comments section.

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