Does race matter in camming?

 

 

 

As I frequently note, I grew up in a neighborhood comprised of mostly Black Americans. As a result of this lack of diversity a comfortableness with expressing stereotypes based on race was common. It was not unusual to hear “Black people always loud” or “you know white people can’t dance” quite frequently. Although I have been exposed to vast diversity since my childhood and repeatedly have evidenced these stereotypes to be false I am led to believe that these stereotypes are still held by the majority of society due to de facto segregation and the frequency of micro-aggressions commonly made against minorities. Little defense mechanisms made by others upon my approach are so common that I do not even notice them! It is only when I am with someone of a race unfamiliar with them are they pointed out to me. Racism is just as prominent today as it was in the era of Jim Crow.

 

In 2019 a lot of Americans would like to believe that we live in a post-racial society; unfortunately this is not true. Data shows that as a society we are more racist than ever (Pew Poll). This is confirmed by The Huffington Post which states that “racism still manifests itself frequently in everyday life”. Evidence of racial disparities in schools, jobs, wealth, etc. are expounded upon to validate this claim in the Huffington post article. In this article a brief expose’ on racial disparities in the webcam world will be examined.

 

 

 

 

It has been driven into our heads for decades that a beautiful woman is a dainty white woman with a slender frame and tiny features.

 

 

This dream girl had to have pale soft skin and sexy wavy hair. Her thinness evidenced her fragility and need to be protected by a big strong man. Due to her weakness she was prone to frequent fainting spells. Thankfully the help was always there to catch her sexy self.

 

 

The help was usually a heavy set black woman and was not seen as sexy. This perception of dark-skinned black American women as the overweight sidekick to the cute and sexy white or light-skinned girl is one which has been blasted by the media for decades.

 

 

 

This unconscious association of black women as less attractive is very evident in the world of camming. To validate this I perused the homepages of a few popular camming sites. In my passive research I counted a total of only four phenotypically black girls on the homepages of six different camming sites. This was only 4 women out of about 500 girls!

 

Unfortunately, this racial difference was also evidenced to affect tips procured. Using a small sample size of only twenty models financial rewards were 70 percent higher for models that did not appear phenotypically black.

 

I evidenced an obvious layer of racism within the cammming community quite a while ago. The absence of diversity on the homepage was evident to me immediately. Yet, when I pointed it out to people of other races they reported that they had not noticed this. I have also been led to wonder whether I notice racism and colorism more than those who do not experience it because I am frequently affected by it. I say this as a response to the gaggle of non-black people who will think “racism? RACISM? it’s all in her head no ones racist.”

 

 

Let me end part one of my series on race now. Don’t fret! I will continue to explore racism in the sex industry monthly.

 

Tune in on the first Friday of every month were we will discuss race-related topics to camming! Also, what are your thoughts on this topic?

Fetish Friday: What are fetishes?

Before I started camming if someone were to ask me if I was a freak I would proudly answer yes.

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I thought that my propensity for swallowing and anal made me a freak.  I thought I was special and that I had no barriers.

This was before I knew about real freakiness. My response of yes to the question of whether or not I am a freak quickly changed to no as I began to learn about different fetishes.  As more and more of my customers proposed that they were willing to spend large amounts of money to see me fulfill various fantasies that I had never considered it opened my eyes to how much I didn’t know about sex.

I hope to share with you every Friday information on a fetish as well as items you may need in order to visually portray that fetish.  I also invite you to share fetishes that you would like more information on as well as tips  and tricks!  This weekly installment will be called Fetish Fridays!

So welcome to your first Fetish Friday!  In this introductory post a simple definition and brief history of fetishes will be explored.  I promise to keep this brief and to not bore you.

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What is a Fetish

According to dictionary.com a fetish is “a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc”.  The origins of fetishism within someone is often disputed with some attributing it to factors occurring during puberty, factors before puberty, external factors, etc.

Fetishes are also extremely common with 87% of  men and women reporting that they derive sexual gratification from an object.  I admit I fall victim to this.  I see a stack of pancakes and its an instant orgasm.  I cant even go to IHOP anymore.

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Types

According to Askmen.com the 10 most common fetishes are foot fetish, voyeurism, latex, domination and submission, body piercing, breasts and behinds, cross-dressing, hair, water, thunder and lightning, and furries .  There also exists a plethora of fetishes that are less common.  Some examples are  raceplay,  balloons, and pancakes.

Next Fetish Friday: Furries

Are there any fetishes that I haven’t mentioned?  Have any favorite fetishes?  Which fetish would you like to see explored?  Leave questions, comments, and/or concerns down below in the comments section.

Webcam model memes

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The key to success in the world of camming is not what most people think.  Most people think that in order to be a successful webcam model you have to be extremely good looking and have the best equipment.

This actually isn’t the case at all.  The key to success in the world of camming is personality.  People will spend a dollar on a big butt and a smile but will spend hundreds of dollars on a big butt, smile, AND a bubbly personality!  I make the most money when I just sit and talk to the members of my room.

Also do not fear if you’re not bubbly and optimistic most of the time.  I’m definitely not.  I’m that friend who will get a papercut and text you that she’s about to die, that girl that wears “black Timbs and black hoodies” and writes poetry in the dark.

So how do I go from this

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to this

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 Well it starts for me with a laugh.  The ability to switch to a personality that’s appealing to the cam world starts with a cute giggle at a meme.  The memes that I choose to laugh at are usually related to camming,  Unfortunately, there does not yet exist a huge network of camming memes yet.  As a result of this camming memes are difficult to find.  But thanks to my friends on Twitter and various online meme makers I am always able to find  and/or create webcam model memes! Below I have gathered the five best webcam model memes.  I upload new ones frequently on Twitter so follow me there for more memes and to share your camming memes with me.  Thanks!

  1. Hmm, suspicious.

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2. My reaction to group shows.

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3. The Fetish side of webcamming.

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4.  Getting tipsy for cam.

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5. Scam Alert!

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Which meme is your favorite?  Have you made your own that you would like to share?  Follow me on twitter so that I can see it and I might retweet it!

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